Aries season is all about breaking free from seeking approval and bringing the focus back to yourself. This is a time for internal validationโto be your own hype person, to embrace your power, and to fully tap into what we call: Bad Bitch Energy (BBE).
What is Bad Bitch Energy (BBE)?
To understand BBE, we first need to understand what it is not. The opposite of BBE is the โGood Girlโ Complexโa societal conditioning that prioritizes making others comfortable at the expense of your own needs.
(And just to be clear, both of these concepts transcend gender. However, the โGood Girlโ Complex has historically been pinned on the feminine, so weโre reclaiming it with righteous, unapologetic energy.)
The โGood Girlโ Complex is about:
- Putting othersโ needs, emotions, and wants before your own.
- Making yourself small, avoiding conflict, and keeping the peace at all costs.
- Measuring your worth by how much you can give, rather than by who you are.
This way of thinking is anxiety-inducing, life-draining, and outdated. From childhood, many of usโespecially womenโare taught that our worth is tied to how much we can please others. But letโs be clear: your value is not defined by what you can be to others.
The Antidote? Bad Bitch Energy.
BBE is about stepping into your highest, most powerful self. Itโs about embodying the boldest, most grounded, magnetic, fun, and unapologetic version of youโthe one who knows her worth without needing external validation.
BBE is not about how much money you make, what size you wear, the things you own, or who youโre in a relationship with. Itโs about:
- Intuition โ Trusting yourself completely.
- Confidence โ Knowing you are evolving into your next best self.
- Fierce self-love โ Finding beauty in your independence.
- Responsibility โ Owning your choices and taking charge of your life.
- Freedom โ Living life on your terms, without apology.
- Sexiness โ Because feeling yourself is the ultimate power move.
Your Aries Season BBE Checklist:
- Put yourself first.
- Make yourself a priority.
- Know your worth (and stop comparing yourself to others, period!).
- Stay focused on your goals.
- Get that money, hunny.
- Respect yourself and your boundaries.
- Hype yourself up.
- Stand tallโshoulders back, head high.
- Stunt on everybody who ever doubted you.
- Donโt take shit from anyoneโespecially yourself.
A Final Reminder: Kindness is Key
Being a baddie isnโt about being cruel, cold, or indifferent. True confidence radiates from kindness, generosity, and loveโnot from tearing others down. So go ahead, sprinkle that good energy around like confetti while standing fully in your power.
Aries season is here. Time to own your magic and glow the hell up. ๐ฅ
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