Letโs be realโstepping into the spotlight (whether in your career, creativity, or just owning your damn presence) can feel terrifying. That fear of being seen? Itโs loud, itโs sneaky, and it loves to keep you playing small. But guess what? You were not made to be small.
If youโre ready to break free from the fear of stepping out, here are three powerful steps to shake off the doubt and start showing up like the baddie you are.
1. Talk It Out
The only surefire way to quiet your inner critic is to talk about whatโs actually going on in your mind. Sounds simple, right? But hereโs the catchโitโs trickier than it seems.
We often convince ourselves that weโre the only ones feeling this way. Thatโs a lie. If you reach out to a trusted friend, mentor, or a community of like-minded people, youโll quickly realize that MANY people struggle with the fear of being seen.
And the magic? Once you say it out loud, that fear loses its grip. The heavy, paralyzing weight starts to lift, and suddenly, action feels possible. So speak it, share it, release itโthen watch yourself step into the light.
2. Collect Compliments Like Receipts
Be honest: when someone compliments you, do you really take it in? Or do you brush it off, only to hold onto criticism like itโs gospel?
Enough of that. Itโs time to start keeping track of your wins. The next time someone hypes you up, let yourself absorb it. Write it down, take a screenshot, stash it in a โhype folderโ on your phoneโwhatever works for you.
Then, the next time imposter syndrome creeps in or fear tries to take over, pull out that list. Let it remind you of the energy you bring, the impact you make, and the undeniable fact that you belong in any space you choose to show up in.
3. Accept That Youโll Never Feel 100% ReadyโAnd Do It Anyway
Hereโs the truth: if you wait until you feel fully ready, youโll be waiting forever. Nobody starts out fearless. Every icon, leader, and trailblazer you admire had to do things for the first timeโusually while feeling a little scared.
The key? Do it afraid.
When you show up as your most authentic self, youโll attract people who resonate with your energy. And the ones who donโt? Irrelevant. Their opinions do not define you. What matters is that you choose to step up and own your place in the world.
Reminder: You Are Meant to Be Seen
Your voice, your talents, your presenceโthey matter. The fear of being seen is just your mind trying to keep you safe, but safety isnโt the goal. Growth, expansion, and stepping into your highest self are.
So take a deep breath, stand tall, and let yourself shine. The world is waiting for you Cosmic Baddie! ๐ฅ